Saturday, November 15, 2014

Professional Development: Discernment Counselling for Couples

Discernment Counselling

Bill Doherty, Ph.D, co-founder and internationally recognized marriage expert has been working with therapists, legislators, lawyers and mediators for years to better serve couples struggling with divorce decisions.  As a researcher, he has documented high levels of divorce ambivalence among couples even after starting the divorce process.  As a therapist, he has developed Discernment Counseling, a new way to work with divorce ambivalence presenting in the form “mixed agenda” couples where one partner is leaning out of the marriage and the other wants to save it.  This is a frustrating and challenging situation for therapists, lawyers, mediators—and most of all, for the couples themselves.

From Clinton Power of Australia Counselling:

The founder of this protocol, Bill Doherty, Ph.D., is currently in Australia working with various agencies for training and a possible dissemination through government money aimed at divorce prevention.

Bill has developed a 25 hour online training to equip therapists with a new way of working with one of the most challenging types of couples, who he calls mixed-agenda.

In these couples, one partner is uncertain if they want to stay in the marriage or long term relationship, while the other is often desperate to work on saving the relationship. This presents numerous challenges for therapists, because no matter what you say, you are aligning with one of the people and the other is upset or stalls out the therapy process.

You can listen to an in-depth discussion of Discernment Counselling in the podcast interview I did with him here.

Developed over his 35 year career, with research backing and a book in the works through the American Psychological Association, this is a protocol to consider adding to your skill set if you work with couples.

In this free video series, Bill explains exactly why this model works for these challenging couples, what it involves for you as a therapist to learn it, and how he hopes to make this new type of therapy a household name.

Click here to get the free video series

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